Break Ups Suck



Most any girl has been there and if you haven’t, you will at some point, and I promise you it will suck. You most likely will think you are in love, but nine times out of ten, you won’t be. In the moment, it does feel like it but after a few weeks or months, you will realize you were just being naive. 
Watching someone you feel as though you love drift away from you will hurt, it will hurt so bad but remember that you don’t rely on them. You don’t need a relationship to be happy or to be popular. 

Sometimes you need to end things even though it will be awful. I’ve been there plenty of times, you might have to look out for yourself and end things or they might have to do that to you. School will always trump a boy in my eyes, I just had to end things with a boy because i needed to focus on my grades this semester. Since we’ve been split up, I’ve been getting all A’s. You have to sacrifice the fun things for what’s actually important sometimes. 
Just remember that it will hurt, it could hurt for a few days, weeks, or months, but if you are not trying to feel better, it will not get better. One day you’ll wake up and never think of them again, a memory won’t pop in your head, you won’t think of texting, and you won’t get a whiff of their cologne. One day you might not even remember their name or that you guys dated. You will be happy again even if it doesn’t feel like you’ll ever smile again. I promise you that you will find the one, they just weren’t it. 



Sometimes we have to let go of what’s killing us even if it kills us to let go.




Comments

  1. EmiFebruary 8, 2020 at 3:03 PM

    you are so right, it will matter only if you sit, the important thing is to think positive and that way you will progress

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  2. EmiFebruary 8, 2020 at 3:04 PM

    *only if you sit and think about it all the time

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  3. UnknownFebruary 9, 2020 at 5:29 AM

    That would help loads of girls a lot thanks so much and I'm here from your tik tok 🤗🥰✌️

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